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Weirdlet ([personal profile] weirdlet) wrote2010-11-17 01:45 am
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Yeah, Sure, What the Heck-

Yoinked variously from Beckyh2112, Avocado-Love, Attackfish, and Suzukiblu.  Have at it, folks- I shall do my best to answer.


I think it would be fun to talk about stories, but the usual memes are like, "What happens next?" "Tell me about Character A?" Which isn't so much talking about stories as it is writing more of a story. But you know how sometimes you read something and you're like, "I got ___ out of this story, I wonder if I have that right?" or "What on earth was ____ supposed to be?" and it's too awkward to ask the author? Now you could totally ask!

I've heard people say that writing is hard because you have to make decisions, but we never really talk about the decisions we make with stories or why we make them. We talk about plot bunnies, but not about how we actually turn them into a story.

And it seems like a lot more fun to do that than to do working.

So, if you wanted, ask me questions! (Or use this to ask your flist to ask you questions).

What were you trying to do [here]? Why did you decide to ____? This is what I thought about xyz, is that what you were going for? What made you write ____? Why did you decide to do this? And so on.

[identity profile] attackfish.livejournal.com 2010-11-17 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm very glad pregnancy in general isn't one of mine, as I can't get pregnant. However, gender and gender norms really really are, so when I connect with mpreg, it tends to be there. Lots of authors, though not you, tend to use mpreg as a way to have their slash and their heteronormative 70s romance novel ending too. And it just sticks in my craw. As I said, I'm writing That Damn Mpreg, at the moment, and also arranging my sterilization surgery (I can conceive, but I can't carry, as I'm allergic to my own progesterone, and it would kill me within a month, according to my doc) so pregnancy is on my mind, as is reproductive emotions. I found myself surprised at how unhappy I was about having the surgery, that I had know I would need since I was really little, and it reminded me how much of our ideas of womanhood revolve around motherhood. My misery wasn't about not being able to have a kid, but about not being normal, and having my body not fit. Right around then, I started writing about a pregnant trans man. Coincidence? I think not.

As for fetishism, I have my best friend the trans man egging me on to write, which soothes my cis guilt some. (he's just so happy to see something written by a cis person about a trans character that isn't about the transition or specifically about being a trans person, and he's my best friend, so I don't know if his approval speaks to quality or not). Your mpreg is less disgustingly heteronormative than most portrayals, which puts you ahead, right?

[identity profile] weirdlet.livejournal.com 2010-11-17 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks^^ I figure half the fun is actually playing it- well, straight isn't exactly the word, but in-character. Even heteronormative stuff can be all about the 'This is *not* helpful, right now!', even if the perceived/preferred norm is that they all live happily ever after, la de da.

*hugs* It's definitely one of those norms that's pervasive- everything living wants to breed, even if individuals can have very good reasons and desires not to. A lot of our behavior is built up around it, to the point where it remains even when the core reason becomes irrelevant. I choose to see it as the creation and raising of the next generation being the important thing- the methods used to do so are diverse, and none inherently better than the others, so long as it results in a happy, loved next-gen.

[identity profile] weirdlet.livejournal.com 2010-11-18 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
And because I always think of better ways to put things long after the fact-

*hugs* Not having your body be the way you want it to sucks.

[identity profile] attackfish.livejournal.com 2010-11-18 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah. there's that. But I do think it has a lot to do with having my body not fit an internalized norm. *shakes fist at society* Seriously, I know I can adopt. I want to adopt. I'm used to being disabled. *shakes head* do not get my self sometimes.

[identity profile] weirdlet.livejournal.com 2010-11-18 08:18 am (UTC)(link)
Head can know something cold, but you can still get twitchy doubts and feelings you wish would fall into line. It's all a process, as my ol' mum says.